Middle-school English teacher Lauren LaMay died on the night of July 19 after collapsing in her kitchen. After CPR was performed on her, LaMay was pronounced dead at the hospital.
LaMay, who was in her early 60s, had just returned last week from a tour of Central Europe with her friend Geoff Wong.
She had been a part of the SCDS faculty since 1980.
Currently, there are no definite plans for a memorial service, as most of her family members live on the East Coast.
LaMay’s impact reached generations of students, some of whom have taken to social media to express their sadness at her sudden death.
Julia Owaidat, ‘16, tweeted, “One of the best teachers and people you’ll ever meet. My heart goes out to her and her family.”
Owaidat also posted on Facebook to talk about her beloved middle-school English teacher.
“Before taking her class in the seventh grade, I didn’t know the first thing about constructing an essay,” Owaidat posted. “Not only did she teach me how, but she made it a passion that I still enjoy and will continue to enjoy forever.
“I think I speak for all of her students when I say she was truly loved and admired by all.”
Isabel Siragusa, ‘07, posted on Facebook, “Her passion for storytelling and her gentle spirit helped me become the writer, obsessive reader, and even actor that I am today.”
Other alumni who have posted about the teacher’s death include Alex Bushberg, ‘15, and Victoria Loustalot, ‘03.
Bushberg tweeted, “RIP, Ms. LaMay, best English teacher I ever had. I’ll never forget her amazing story-telling ability.”
And Loustalot replied to the Octagon’s breaking news tweet about LaMay’s death with “She forever changed the way I read, think, and write.”
Parents, faculty, and friends of LaMay also replied to the school’s Facebook announcement of her death.
Former drama teacher Corrine Cleary posted, “What a legacy Lauren has left. She has decades of students who became lifelong readers and thinkers due to her insightful guidance and tutelage.”
And former student Gradeen Maloney posted, “(LaMay) was with(out) a doubt, one of my favorite teachers throughout all of high school and college.
“Ms. LaMay was unbelievably kind, caring, compassionate, encouraging and helped me to develop a love of writing and continue to be passionate about reading.”
LaMay was known for reading aloud Harper Lee’s “To Kill a Mockingbird” to her eighth-grade students.
She also set an example for many of them.
“(LaMay) was one of my first models for what it looked like to be a smart woman, a woman who thought about things and really felt literature as a real thing, as something important to life,” said Susan Harlan, ‘95, now an associate English professor at Wake Forest University in North Carolina.
Like the lawyer Atticus Finch, who is the hero of “Mockingbird,” LaMay had her own values and view of the world.
“I just knew that she wasn’t like everyone else, and she taught me that value – to be different, not to look or sound or act like the rest of the world,” Harlan said.
—By Katia Dahmani